Showing posts with label help me save my relationship. Show all posts
Showing posts with label help me save my relationship. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Will No Contact Push My Ex Away? Let the Secrets Be Told

"Will no contact push my ex away from me? Or will no contact help bring my ex back to me again?" Alright, this is one tough question for you. I don't know where you've learned about this "no contact" method, and it definitely seem out of the way to actually help get your ex back, that's why I'm here, to clear up the cloudy mist of "Will no contact push my ex away from me?" type of question.

First off, if there is hope in your relationship, then no it won't - it will definitely make your ex think about their decision to break up again. After a few weeks of no contact, you'll probably be worried and start blasting yourself with thoughts like "Maybe they've forgotten about me, and maybe they think I don't love them anymore, maybe no contact really does push my ex away from me".

If that's the way you're thinking, then how about considering this: If you have no contact with your ex for a few weeks and then you suddenly contact them to tell you that you still care, what message does that send? 
It says to your ex "I implemented no contact to move on and heal, and now 3 weeks down the track I haven't moved on or healed at all."

Your ex will again know that they can still have you if they want you, even if they don't hear from you for another few weeks, they won't be overly concerned - the last few weeks hadn't diminished your feelings, so why would the ex think the next few will?!

Not a bad little (HUGE) security boost for the ex there, huh? Not to mention a huge step backwards for your good self.

"So, will no contact push my ex away from me? Or vice versa?" I guess you have the answer now.

No contact allows you to get back on your feet and start to feel confident in who you are again. Remember a time when you were single and happy? This is exactly where you need to get yourself standing again, if you want to get back with your ex again.

Find out how did I get my ex back by implementing the "No contact" method.

Some may be reluctant to take steps to regain independence, but you are useless to anyone (including your ex if they want you back) if you are unable to be happy with yourself.

I totally understand how you are feeling right now, I've been there once, too. But time is not on your side my friend. There are these tiny little steps and immediate actions that you could do to get back with your ex, but that's as far as I can hold you, the rest are up to you.

Wishing For You,

Casey Miller

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Shocking Truths That Helped Me Save My Relationship!

"Please help me save my relationship!" Is this where you're at right now? I know it's an extremely hard time for you right now after a divorce or break up, not to mention how tough it gets if you're trying to save your relationship.

It's tough because one wrong move and you'll lose the person you love forever! Often times, what feels like the right thing to do, is wrong. I know it, I've been there. And therefore this time I'm going to share with you the truths that help me save my relationship at my lowest moments.

You might not heard of the methods I used to help me save my relationship few months back, but after so many people tried and saved their relationships even what seems to be the most complicated situations, I can tell you these methods definitely stand a chance for you to read on!

Counterintuitive Technique #1

This very first method employs the agreeableness of you and your ex that both of you have broken up. I know, to agree towards a break up and accept that it's already a fact is not easy.

However, it's obvious that when a couple broke up both of them are hurt and so giving your ex some time to themselves shows that you respect them, in times they will start to miss you again. When I first tried out this method, it broke all skeptical thoughts about it because it takes effect very fast. I've personally leveraged on this to help me save my relationship, and worked perfectly well.

Counterintuitive Technique #2

The second method I used was to cut off all communications. Ok, you're probably thinking "How on Earth this will help me save my relationship, if I don't even communicate with her!" Well, hold on first because it works, and it's extreme effective!

Not only it will show your ex that you're serious about it, by not communicating at all will give ample time for your ex to miss you, and reconsider about their decisions to do so. It also sets you up for the next method to help you save your relationship!

Counterintuitive Technique #3

The next move will be to plan an event where you two can reconnect. You could bump into them "incidentally", or time it nicely so they bump into you right on time. However there are many critical steps in between you can not leave out! Read my story and discover all the counterintuitive and unconventional truth that had help me save my relationship, it probably works for you too!

I totally understand how you are feeling right now, but time is not on your side my friend.. If I were you, I'd take my first step to help me save my relationship by Clicking Here!

Just to make sure you get my points that these methods had been working for me, however it might not work for every case. Anyway these tactics to help you save your relationship are extracted from a great book which I had reviewed in my blog, make sure you read my story!