Sunday, May 18, 2008

How To Love?

Love is strange. One moment it can bring you 9 clouds ahead in the sky, the next moment it can smack you down, hurting you like none can ever describe. However, it is Love, that brings human together, be it the Love of Family, Love of Friends, Love of Nature, Love of Couples, it all compromise to have one objective, to create the peace and harmony within the world, without boundaries. Love is the continual act of unconditionally putting the needs of others before your own.




1. Say it. This is the easiest, yet the hardest part of all. You can easily say "I Love You", but do you really mean it? Be it family members, friends, lovers.. Just say it, the 3 magic words. But, be sure to look into their eyes, say it when you mean it, or the purpose of this is deceived.




2. Emphatize. Actions, take actions as you say the magic words. Show your affections to your love ones, seriously, nothing beats actions when it comes to results. Communication is the best vehicle for Love, listen carefully to them, understand what they think, what they have in mind, and lastly talk to them.




3. Love Unconditionally. Why do we love? It's certainly not because we want something from the others, it's because to be able to GIVE Love, is something we should be proud of, it's a GodSend that human, has Love. So, expect nothing more and you'll find Love from the others coming on your way..




4. Appreciate. Don't ever take Love for granted. The worst human that could ever be, is the one that abuse Love. If there's people out there loving you, you might not necessarily return the Love, but at least appreciate that others have actually taken the time and energy to love you

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